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Threesomes can be really awesome! If you want to do it, if you feel ready and informed, if you trust the other people, if you are attracted to both people, if you feel safe and are excited to do it, then do it!
It’s not for everybody, but personally I enjoy them. I’m in an open poly relationship with my girlfriend (whom I live with), and we have a kinda casual girlfriend, H. Before her relationship with us, H was a virgin and she made her sexual debut with us, after lots of talking about everybody’s feelings and comfort levels and stuff. And we all had a great time! I definitely think it was less awkward for H because there were three of us and having another person really broke the tension. And she really benefited from having two experienced lovers and from getting more than one point of view. She got to try a lot of things that she probably wouldn’t have with just one of us! Speaking from experience, I’d recommend it.
Making your sexual debut in a threesome is totally okay. Whether it’s in a romantic context or no strings attached, it’s a perfectly valid choice. But if you don’t feel safe or you don’t want to for any reason, it’s also ok to decline and wait until you’re ready or the circumstances are right. Follow your heart!
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